tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post7250178608712747968..comments2023-11-02T04:58:12.773-06:00Comments on PSYCHO CARNIVAL: Mother's Day For MeKellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-78795395984342694932011-05-22T13:33:58.826-06:002011-05-22T13:33:58.826-06:00Drama Queen- Thank you for your kind words and sup...Drama Queen- Thank you for your kind words and support. And sorry to you that I'm just now responding. I had to take a break from the blogging scene.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-54050014467872462072011-05-13T14:30:39.578-06:002011-05-13T14:30:39.578-06:00Kudos to you for being able to make this touching ...Kudos to you for being able to make this touching post honoring your mom. I know it's difficult letting go of special people that have shaped you as a person, and always made you feel loved and wanted. I felt the same about my grandpa, but took comfort in him saying he was ready to go. Regardless, though, I miss him tons and feel like our family isn't whole without him. It happens, and about the best we can do is move on and create our own families and memories. <br /><br />Beautiful post Kelly. Thanks for sharing. :)Drama Queenhttp://whitetrashchronicles.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-4200738882803554632011-05-10T00:05:55.110-06:002011-05-10T00:05:55.110-06:00Greg- Thanks for saying that about this post and m...Greg- Thanks for saying that about this post and myself, my friend. I don't think I've ever been described, collectively, that way before. I appreciate that. I can understand you not having a close relationship with your parents. And I can say I empathize with that feeling, too. My Dad and I aren't very close. We share a lot of the same attributes, though. I'm flattered that you showed your wife what I wrote and how I feel about what's important. I know I've mentioned this before but isn't it a coincidence that we both live in Indiana, your wife and I have similar names (my wife's is Ladonna), we're similar, in humor, bloggers and your first name and my last is different only by a couple letters? Am I freakin' you out? Ah, don't mind me. Let us ask the question, Where do I Hide The Salami, and dwell on this for the next 24 hours. :)Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-43433970650544504602011-05-09T23:54:35.422-06:002011-05-09T23:54:35.422-06:00THE SNEE- Thanks for saying that at the beginning....THE SNEE- Thanks for saying that at the beginning. Yes, I think we take our closest relationships for granted and we don't often enough see how 'sacred' they really are. I'm glad that you realize their great value. Mom and I had bond that was special on a lot of levels. She always listened to me whenever I talked about anything in life and I would do the same for her. I'm very grateful for the time we had together. I think you may be correct in that. Mom probably would be proud. Thanks for saying that. I might be a 'gem', Rebecca, and I blush at that compliment but I can equally say the same about you. You're a kind, supportive and insightful friend. The very definition of what it is to be a friend, I feel. If I were to equate myself with a gem, I guess it would be a really rough sapphire, straight from wherever sapphires are taken. Because I'm still rough around the edges to not have the knowledge enough about life to completely shine but I know I got something worth paying attention to in me. :) Hell, sometimes, I even sparkle? What gem would you be, Rebecca?Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-40098633893273755802011-05-09T18:24:31.268-06:002011-05-09T18:24:31.268-06:00Your Mom would be proud of your blog and your post...Your Mom would be proud of your blog and your posts. You are truly a great man, funny and inspirational! I never had a close relationship with either one of my parents and when i read your post I envy the closeness that you had with your Mother.<br /><br /> It surely was an awesome thing. I read the part of your post about what is important to Donna my wife. We both thought those words were inspirational. <br /><br /> OK since I had very little openness about sex in my family, unlike you...where do I hide the salami?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16040588288272247628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-15469165509166198522011-05-09T16:55:16.812-06:002011-05-09T16:55:16.812-06:00I'm sorry about your Mom's death. My paren...I'm sorry about your Mom's death. My parents are both alive, but I know I will miss them terribly when they die. Our relationships really are sacred, aren't they.<br /><br />Your words are beautiful, and I have no doubt that your Mom would be very proud. To love and laughter dear Kelly. You are a gem, and I'm grateful to call you friend.<br /><br />P.S. So which gem are you? Diamond, emerald, sapphire,or something else that sparkles(LOL)?THE SNEEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02937574663296944130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-28276086971893135772011-05-09T14:38:44.665-06:002011-05-09T14:38:44.665-06:00DocStout- I know what you mean about Mother's ...DocStout- I know what you mean about Mother's Day. I'm sorry for your loss. There's never good enough words to say to someone who has lost their parent, spouse or kid. So... I just say the standard, "I'm sorry for your loss." And it is truly meant- especially coming from someone who knows real loss. That is heartbreaking that your wife can't see her own son. She and you have my deepest sympathy.<br /><br />All this day is for me is a chance to reflect on how much I miss her. I thought, with this post, I could turn that reflection into a tribute to Mom and all the great things she was about. I think I did a decent job of it.<br /><br />Take care and stay strong. That's all we can really do to honor the lives of our loved ones and keep ourselves going.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-19472437402108511432011-05-09T14:12:33.670-06:002011-05-09T14:12:33.670-06:00Incredible post. As I lost my mother several years...Incredible post. As I lost my mother several years back as well, and my wife has a son who she never gets to see... Mother's Day isn't our favorite day of the year, things get a bit... grim.DocStouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13239520630901083975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-25541087973246583022011-05-09T14:11:32.466-06:002011-05-09T14:11:32.466-06:00G- You pegged her right, G. She was full of life ...G- You pegged her right, G. She was full of life and love and she shared the best part of herself- her unique kindness- with everyone, it seems. That was funny what you said about her laughing at the absurdity of life and not taking things too seriously (beep, indeed). I liked that. And thanks for the ending compliment, man. Hope you have a great week, G.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-25617068565732688372011-05-09T14:08:06.344-06:002011-05-09T14:08:06.344-06:00The Angry Lurker- Thank you. I appreciate the com...The Angry Lurker- Thank you. I appreciate the compliment. And I'm a big cynic, too, for the most part. My sensitive side comes out every so often. :) I'm glad this post reminded you of your mother. Have a good evening.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-62520684039771886162011-05-09T14:04:40.510-06:002011-05-09T14:04:40.510-06:00GEM- Yes, it does help me, as far as dulling the p...GEM- Yes, it does help me, as far as dulling the pain. The loss, I don't think anyone really gets over, when it comes to losing a parent, wife or child. I think you're right. Mom would want my remaining years on Earth here to be happy. I'm glad you still have your mom and she's still active. That's very important. It will likely keep her alive awhile yet. You make a good point about the spirits of loved ones. I firmly believe that everything that made them special when they were here on Earth continues to exist in their spirit with nothing left out.<br /><br />I appreciate this thoughtful comment, GEM. Your support in this is well noticed. Take special care of you and your loved ones and have a great evening.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-4706713225044643102011-05-09T12:37:39.024-06:002011-05-09T12:37:39.024-06:00She sounds like a great woman, full of life and lo...She sounds like a great woman, full of life and love - and it's cool that she didn't take things too seriously and could laugh at the absurdity of life ('beep')...great postGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10678343815209441212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-4198305407972288912011-05-09T03:28:01.839-06:002011-05-09T03:28:01.839-06:00Good post, very moving even for an angry cynic lik...Good post, very moving even for an angry cynic like me, reminded me of my mother who lives in another country.The Angry Lurkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01227314379603418332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-37707261091943988052011-05-09T03:10:08.746-06:002011-05-09T03:10:08.746-06:00Hey Kelly
That can't have been easy facing you...Hey Kelly<br />That can't have been easy facing your pain and anguish regarding the passing of your mom and sharing it so openly but I hope it has helped you move on a little to coming to terms with your loss. i'm sure you know that your mom would only want you to spend your years being happy even if it is without her. You still have your memories and those can't be taken away. <br />My mom is 71 and although she is extremely fit and active I dread the day she will no longer be with us, I cannot imagine life without her. But hopefully that's along way off yet.<br />If you believe in life after deth than you will know that your mom's spirit lives on and therefore her love,kindness and sense of humour does too.<br /><br />Take Care<br />GEMGEMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02607409562313346300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-34614873171644971282011-05-08T22:08:06.361-06:002011-05-08T22:08:06.361-06:00Annabelle- Yes, I hope you'll be able to put o...Annabelle- Yes, I hope you'll be able to put out one like this, too. I know the mother/daughter relationship you had with your mom and I know how hard all of this was for you. The pain and confusion and anger is like a whirlwind of emotions tearing you apart. And here's the kicker. You have to fight on or die yourself. <br /><br />Sorry for my long winded response. I went to Nutty Land for a second.<br />And I thank you for the hugs and kind words. You're a good friend. I send love your way and the hope you that you remember that you have my complete support and you can talk any time with me by email. Take care. Sorry for the rambling.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-61781182514606919872011-05-08T21:59:27.713-06:002011-05-08T21:59:27.713-06:00Gucci Mama- Thank you for saying that, my friend. ...Gucci Mama- Thank you for saying that, my friend. I think she was the best Mom someone could have. She was always very loving and welcoming.<br /><br />I send love right back at you, today. Happy Mother's Day. I hope things are okay for you and you continue to have strength. I'll check on your site later... soon. Take care.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-46761593276301319562011-05-08T21:51:34.058-06:002011-05-08T21:51:34.058-06:00middle child- Yeah, I think you're right about...middle child- Yeah, I think you're right about me moving forward. It's just been painfully slow. It took two years of therapy and my own inner strength before I was able to get over the guilt. I just went through the horrible pain part. Now I'm finally into the bitterness and anger phase. So far, the grieving process has stretched out 6 years for me but I keep plugging along. I'm actually active these days. Before, I couldn't/wouldn't get out of bed.<br /><br />I see you know all about that kind of pain, too, with your Dad dieing. I'm sorry for your loss, my friend. It feels even worse when a loved dies that shares your same outlook or humor on life. It seems that way, anyway. And you're lucky to have a like minded son, too. He's probably like a friend, too.<br /><br />I thank you and appreciate your wonderful words and support. Take good care of yourself and those you love, always.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-24061735995558546522011-05-08T21:38:23.468-06:002011-05-08T21:38:23.468-06:00LilPixi- I'm sorry you're so unhappy but w...LilPixi- I'm sorry you're so unhappy but when you explained how bad your mom's health is, it made me sorry to hear about all these worries that you're carrying these days. About your mom, your pet and what sounds to be a sizable portion of your family. It sounds like you are very close to all them. I just keep hoping you continue to draw on the inner strength I know you have- in spades. In truth, I deeply care for your welfare. And I keep hoping that things somehow get much better for you, my dear friend. Like you said, I say to you, "You have a friend in me, forever." Couldn't have said it better so why should I try?. :) And I'm afraid you're right. Life is pain. It feels like someone has pulled a bad prank you in life, sometimes, that you have no control over it. When I feel this way I either fight or lay down. Luckily, I'm more of a fighter now than ever. The buck stops with me.<br /><br />To tell you the truth, I have purposefully put off reading any Mother's Day posts until I had gotten this out. I didn't want to read how Mother's Day is for them because I thought it might bring about pain. But now that I've done it, I can go see yours and the others.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your supportive, kind words. I really appreciate them and I bet you're right about my Mom loving this post. :)<br /><br />And all the love (and pungent farts) to you, my dear friend, LilPixi.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-11092978994286087962011-05-08T21:20:23.594-06:002011-05-08T21:20:23.594-06:00The Minute Man's Wife- You're certainly ri...The Minute Man's Wife- You're certainly right on that- I was blessed. I believe you're also correct in saying that's where I got my openness and fearless approach to topics. I've got more than my fair share of character flaws but at least I think I get points for those traits. lol. I think. <br /><br />I'm very sorry you lost your father and I understand how much pain you were in. That means a lot to me that you think that my mom is proud of me for writing this. I believe she might be. I really never thought about that until you brought that up just now. That's very comforting. Thank you for commenting. Take care.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-10372849713380213862011-05-08T21:12:57.360-06:002011-05-08T21:12:57.360-06:00Bless My Bitchy Heart- Thank you. I appreciate th...Bless My Bitchy Heart- Thank you. I appreciate the kind words. I am fortunate to be in a supportive blogging community. And yes, mom was amazing. I wish I had told her that more often.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-76053653717149134532011-05-08T21:10:23.701-06:002011-05-08T21:10:23.701-06:00billy pilgrim- Happy Mother's Day to you, as w...billy pilgrim- Happy Mother's Day to you, as well. You're very fortunate to have an active 86 year old mother. Not to mention a spry 89 year old man for a father. I envy you.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-5696114643525100712011-05-08T21:08:12.915-06:002011-05-08T21:08:12.915-06:00The Wolf- I'm sorry you had such awful experie...The Wolf- I'm sorry you had such awful experiences with your mother. I'm in no position to offer advice. I can only offer you support and hope that you keep having the strength you have had all this time. It must be terribly hard on you for Mother's Day. I can understand your feelings. <br /><br />I'm glad I got this post out of my system, too. It was hard but I pushed myself to do it. I'm a fighter. In the past here, I've written a few things regarding mom's death but I wanted this to be more about her life and what she meant. There's not a day that goes by that I don't miss mom.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-88584211608570147802011-05-08T21:00:23.778-06:002011-05-08T21:00:23.778-06:00Lost.in.Idaho- 'butt sex'? You must be a ...Lost.in.Idaho- 'butt sex'? You must be a Beavis and Butt Head fan like me to start thinking like them. I'd laugh my ass off at those guys. Especially when they reviewed the music.<br /><br />You're welcome and I want to thank you for the kinds words for this post. Even now, I have envy for people who still have their mothers. I wish no ill will but I am jealous, somewhat. I openly admit it. I will check out your Mother's Day post soon to see what you mean.<br /><br />I have no doubt your mother is right by your side... despite the substantial distance between the two of you. Happy Mother's Day, my friend. Take care.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13605551857342134163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-74966865154783852232011-05-08T19:34:18.247-06:002011-05-08T19:34:18.247-06:00Thank you for sharing this today. I look forward t...Thank you for sharing this today. I look forward to the day when this is the kind of MD post I can get out. Im so glad to see thais is where you're at.<br /><br />Hugs to you, new friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17255628836689794311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4046843553802315058.post-15269127253610039332011-05-08T19:20:09.408-06:002011-05-08T19:20:09.408-06:00I am sure your Mama is very proud of you. She sou...I am sure your Mama is very proud of you. She sounds like she was a wonderful lady. Everyone should be so lucky to have a mom like that.<br /><br />Sending you much love today. ;-)Gucci Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06098520618133302969noreply@blogger.com